Greatest Love

*There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love. (I John 4:18)

*For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. (John 3:16)


Custom Search

Greeting

My photo
Mie Wopuy - Mie Karet Herbal (Handmade) baik untuk masa penyembuhan maupun diet. FOR DELIVERY:087788981577

LOVE DILLEMA KILLER

Loving two people at the same time

Every now and then I get a message from one of the readers asking me for an explanation for the phenomenon of loving two people at the same time. You may become confused when you find yourself having feelings for two different people at the same time. This could make you think that you are really in love with both of them, however, as soon as you know the reasons behind it the picture is going to become clearer.

Why isn’t one person enough?

If you fell for someone as result of love addiction (falling in love with someone because you are addicted to love itself and not because you love the person himself) then most probably this person won’t be a perfect match for the criteria you were looking for. Under the effect of love addiction we tend to forget about some of the important criteria we are looking as if we are half blind and the result is being with someone whom we don't truly love.

Everything should go fine if we didn’t meet someone else who really matches our criteria, but if this happened, then most likely we are going to fall for him too thinking that we love two people at the same time. Love addiction can make you blind for a while in such a way that it result in making you fall in love with someone who barley matches the criteria you are looking for.

Love addiction is not the only thing that can make someone fall in love with two people because if it happened that two people matched your criteria you may become interested in them both. As long as those people are new to you it’s not odd to become attracted to both of them but as you get to know them more you will find that one of them is a better match for you. If you knew both for a long time and you still have feelings for both of them then you should ask yourself one question, which one do I really love? Because in such a case you may be fooling yourself into thinking that you love them both while the truth is that you love one of them and you are just addicted to the other.

The book How to make someone fall in love with you was released by 2knowmyself.com; the book will dramatically increase your chance of letting someone fall in love with you. 2knowmyself is, without doubt, the only complete source for the psychology of falling in love on the whole web. If you dare to challenge this statement then check out the psychology of falling in love section and you will discover it yourself.


Love and relationship addiction

love addiction is the case where you can't live without having nurturing partner or without having somone that you love while loving you back. love addiction is the case where you are totally unable to function alone,where you always feel bored or always feel bad until someone appears and fills your life with joy . although love addiction is classified as the safest addiction ,still it can destroy your life.

love addiction and lack of self confidence

Sometimes the main reason for love addiction is lack of self confidence, at that case you may just need someone to approve you, someone to confirm to you that you are a good person, someone to act as a compensation factor to cover your lack of self confidence.

Because at that case you just think about it that way “if someone loved me, then I am not worthless, then I am a worthy person”, and so you depend on external factors to feel confident rather than your inner feeling of self worth.

Love Addiction and Break-ups

One of the strong reasons behind break-ups is love addiction, because when you fall in love with someone just because you need him you may feel like breaking up with him as soon as this need disappears, and since this need is developed from temporary down times that we experience the chance of breaking up in the near future becomes much higher. ( see this article for more details on that topic)

love addiction and recovery

love addiction can generally be caused by having other problems in your life, having some kind of emotional problems that you either can't solve or that you either escape solving them can be behind your love addiction.of course no escapement method will be as beautiful as escaping to love, you just need to escape to the mood of love where these bad emotions aren't felt at all. One of the simple rules of emotions is that you can only experience one emotion at a time, so by experiencing love you forget the about the other bad emotions or at least burry them for a while. but they still may visit you like unknown bad mood attacks or even in your dreams.

how to overcome love addiction?

the solution to this problem may not be that hard, you just need to find out what is making you feel bad on being alone, if it was unloved problems then at least start to take action, if it was lack of self confidence then start to build your confidence, whatever the cause is find it then try to take action towards removing it, rather than escaping to a temporary addiction that will solve nothing, it will only accumulate the problems then you will have to face the bigger pile of problems later.

The book “How to get over someone in few days” was released by 2knowmyself, the book is a 100% guarantee that you will get over anyone else you will be refunded. 2knowmyself is, without doubt, the best source for dealing with breakups on the whole internet. If you think that this is some kind of marketing hype then see the relationships & breakups directory and you will discover this fact yourself

Posting yang Berhubungan Berdasarkan Kategori:



No comments: